Pleasing others is actually a great thing to do.
However, twisting yourself inside out and BEING who you are NOT born to be is a very BAD IDEA.
You can relate to this I know, because you are a people lover. The problem is that if you bend and twist yourself into something you’re not, you loose who you are, then you become a door mat. That then is a discussion about boundaries. In our people skills series coming up, you will begin to re-see that boundaries for business are crucial to be effective and get the results you’re after.
People treat us the way we transmit. Are you allowing yourself to be walked over?
Once you STOP doing this, your entire world will change.
Once you SAY what you mean and mean what you say WITHOUT ‘worrying’ about what other people think – your whole world and business results will grow.
I KNOW this not just from sharing it, from living it.
My whole world changed when I STOPPED pleasing the world, And got into FULL alignment with what I am here to do.
It sorts itself out.
I have more to say on this for you as we journey with the people skills for business work – however, in the meantime – notice when you are pleasing others.
Track with us here for our People Skills for business work – It’s Free.