Intercept Experience

Enhancing Leadership Skills

Tanya Lacy

Pleasing Others…

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Pleasing others is actually a great thing to do.

However, twisting yourself inside out and BEING who you are NOT born to be is a very BAD IDEA.

Here’s why…

You can relate to this I know, because you are a people lover. The problem is that if you bend and twist yourself into something you’re not, you loose who you are, then you become a door mat. That then is a discussion about boundaries. In our people skills series coming up, you will begin to re-see that boundaries for business are crucial to be effective and get the results you’re after.

People treat us the way we transmit. Are you allowing yourself to be walked over?

Once you STOP doing this, your entire world will change.

Once you SAY what you mean and mean what you say WITHOUT ‘worrying’ about what other people think – your whole world and business results will grow.

I KNOW this not just from sharing it, from living it.

My whole world changed when I STOPPED pleasing the world, And got into FULL alignment with what I am here to do.

It sorts itself out.

I have more to say on this for you as we journey with the people skills for business work – however, in the meantime – notice when you are pleasing others.

Track with us here for our People Skills for business work – It’s Free.

Imperfect Action.

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Imperfect Action. This evening I want to remind you that it’s better to move than to be stuck.

Have you ever experienced freezing and being frozen because you are AFRAID of screwing it up?

Many of our clients are high performers.

As such, getting it perfect can actually become a barrier.

Imperfect Action as part of your approach, gives you permission to screw it up.

So go ahead screw it up.

As Zig Ziglar said. You don’t have to be great to start, but you do need to start to be great.

Here’s what I have to say to you: Work with us on moving and improving.

We play the long deep game.

In the meantime, move imperfectly. For none of us are perfect as humans.

❤

P.S. As a special for those who are following us here we would love for you to start.

To start….

Accepting your perfections and imperfections….

Believing in your own unique abilities…

Accepting you are someone who can…

write a book

teach a course

go on radio

sing

paint

write

coach

mentor

lead

manage

speak up

give opinions

express yourself directly

If you’ve ever questioned your abilities? Or

You are questioning your own self-worth, questioning yourself?

Our Value Breakthrough book is for you.

It’s an experience. It’s a workbook, so you get to work on you. You get to reacquaint yourself with you.

And we’re offering it for a limited time for $9 AUD that’s $6 USD for our American followers.

Get it here now and Start!

How To Find The Balance Between Being Strong and Shaping Outcomes WITHOUT Upsetting The Applecart.

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This one is all about ALIGNment to your own intentions.

If your intentions are NOT

-arrogant

-malice

-ego based

Then it’s much easier to be strong and firm and fair.

It’s when we’re double minded. It’s when we’re judgmental.

It’s when we’re coming from a superior place that things get wobbly.

So, it’s really about understanding that while we as leader are ‘gifted’ with a strong sense of willingness to be responsible?

That it may not be that easy for others to handle or take on what we can – especially those who are learning and growing in our charge.

This is where WE must find that alignment and center of gravity. That compassion (and love even) for our fellow team members.

For our fellow colleagues.

That point of understanding where we KNOW that just as we have a lot going on in our lives, others also have a lot going on in theirs. AND that their priorities may NOT be the same as OURS and- that’s ok.

This process helps us control things less and be more nurturing and sensitive yet direct.

This is all part of Uncomplicated Leadership.

Being in alignment with self helps us locate the communication set point to move others.

We have to be able to move people to move people.

And first we must be prepared to take responsibility for our leadership, communication and influence.

And this requires deliberate focus and reflection.

The deeper you dive into yourself and clear your garbage. The cleaner your leadership style.

The good news is? We can help, join the 5 S.T.A.R Leadership and Team Success Community and blend online, on-demand learning with LIVE group sessions with Me, Coach T.

Here’s the link

 

Discern Ego Versus Confidence

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Inner confidence is a key factor in leadership.

Inner Confidence is different to ego (outer confidence).

Click the heading above to watch the second video in our Leadership self-care series – It’s FREE!

Uncomplicated Leadership

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What is the VALUE of confusion?

It’s a great question.

What does confusion produce for you, for me?

The answer is – ZERO. Naught. Nothing.

Yet, we live in a world where CONFUSION is used to distract us, derail us and demotivate us from what is CORE to us.

Pause a second and digest that one.

Once you move past this, and understand the POWER of clear uncomplicated communication: Your Influence levels will sky rocket. YUP! Explode!

There’s another thing though.

You have to be BRAVE to do it. Because it means looking at the confusion in your life, in your way, internal and external. That means, you have to be BOTHERED to do it. You have to WANT to do it. You have to STRIP AWAY the CONFUSION!

If you are READY to truly increase your influence. To truly create the IMPACT you were born to create in your LEADERSHIP? I both support and challenge you to join our exclusive 5 S.T.A.R Leadership Community. Here’s the link

 

 

Strengthen Your Capacity to Lead

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Resilience is a key factor when the going gets tough in Leadership.

To increase your resilience take time out to reset.

Click the heading above to watch the first video in our self-care leadership series. – it’s FREE 🙂

Beware of Complex Words that Confuse and Cause Doubt

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What is the VALUE of confusion?

It’s a great question.

What does confusion produce for you, for me?

The answer is – ZERO. Naught. Nothing.

Yet, we live in a world where CONFUSION is used to distract us, derail us and demotivate us from what is CORE to us.

Pause a second and digest that one.

Once you move past this, and understand the POWER of clear uncomplicated communication: Your Influence levels will sky rocket. YUP! Explode!

There’s another thing though.

You have to be BRAVE to do it.

That means, you have to be BOTHERED to do it.

You have to WANT to do it.

You have to STRIP AWAY the CONFUSION!

If you are READY to truly increase your influence.

To truly create the IMPACT you were born to create in your LEADERSHIP?

I both support and challenge you to join my e-Coach Session Power of Language.

You can get it HERE

See You inside the session!

Coach T

Leadership Self-Care

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Empathetic Entrepreneurs?
Are you an Empath?

Being an empath is often attributed to females in business, we’ve found, however, being an empath in business is not restricted to women in business.

If you are a soft-hearted person, yet you are also a high performer and ambitious, this article and free video series is a tool to help you see things differently and put some new approaches and boundaries in place to protect your performance and your energy. 

How do you self-care, with so much going on? 

Because, the success of the business is a reflection of you – then all the work you’re in control of, begins with you. 

How can you improve your self-observation and self-understanding? 

To problem solve, to understand your own thought processes?

Look and understand your own perspectives as when you do, you begin to understand your impact as a leader and you will have more confidence and competence.

Know thyself.

We’ve put together a free e-Coach series, to support the empath in business . 

Whether seasoned or staring out in the business world, if you identify as an empath? If you want to get the balance between being empathetic yet executing and getting results? This free series gives you tools to balance your approach.  

Leadership Self-Care e-Coach Series